When I saw the name
of this article (without reading the whole text), I was so provoked and angry,
I had so much to say and I wanted to
shout out loud: LOVE IS LOVE!!!
But, after I read it, I couldn’t do anything else but agree on most of the points
made by the author. Life is very hard
for transgendered people, no matter which country they live in, and no matter
how supportive their families and/or friends are. They are still discriminated
against in the streets, schools, stores, public bathrooms, and to make their
struggle even worse – within the very LGBTQI community, thus being “betrayed”
by the people who should be “their own”.
How is that possible? Well, if you’re not a transgendered
person, you are almost never going to
be in the situation of discussing your private parts, your genes, your
hormones; if you have to go into surgery of some kind, the only people wanting
to hear about it will be your family and friends; you will never be referred to
as “formerly” anything; you will never have to answer when you figured out that you were you, etc. These are just some of
the questions many of us ask transgendered people, not really considering that
they aren’t some art exhibition set up for our own fun and
education.
Don’t get me wrong –
I understand that many ask these questions because they want to learn more and
thus become more accepting of the Trans-community. Even I did it before I thought
about what I’m doing by it. BUT, if you’re reading this, you have access to the
internet, which means you can Google it!
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Now back to the article… Even though I find the text to be very informative, I’m
still provoked by the article’s name. While it might still be “revolutionary”
to be accepting of transgendered people, I believe it’s time to crush the boundaries
of gender when it comes to love. Loving a transgendered person shouldn’t be
something “special” or “unusual” anymore.
As long as it’s consensual, love whoever you wish to!
The revolution is love!